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12 Best Quotes from THE GIVER by LOIS LOWRY

LOIS LOWRY

Lines from THE GIVER, each followed by what it means in the context of the book.

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  1. “We gained control of many things. But we had to let go of others.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 13

    Meaning

    The Giver explains to Jonas the trade-off made by the community for Sameness. They achieved order and predictability by sacrificing individuality, emotion, and the richness of human experience, highlighting the central theme of loss for control and the deliberate choices made to shape their society.

  2. “The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Pressure of knowing that there is no one else who truly understands.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 14

    Meaning

    The Giver reveals the profound isolation that comes with his unique role. This quote emphasizes the immense burden of knowledge and emotion in a society designed to suppress them, making his connection with Jonas even more crucial as he finds someone who can share his understanding.

  3. “They don't want to change things. They like the way things are.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 13

    Meaning

    The Giver expresses his frustration with the community's complacency and resistance to change. This highlights the deep-seated fear of the unknown and the comfort found in Sameness, even if it means sacrificing true understanding and feeling, and living in ignorance of a richer world.

  4. “If you were to be lost in the river, Jonas, your memories would not be lost with you. Memories are forever.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 15

    Meaning

    The Giver explains the critical role of the Receiver in preserving the community's collective memory. This statement underscores the idea that memories transcend individual lives and are essential for the wisdom and continuity of society, even if the community doesn't consciously access them, highlighting their enduring power.

  5. “We don't dare to let people make choices of their own.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 13

    Meaning

    The Giver explains the community's rationale for Sameness. By removing individual choice, they believe they prevent mistakes and suffering, illustrating the core philosophical conflict between freedom and security that the book explores. This reveals the fear that underpins their structured existence.

  6. “It's the choosing that's important, isn't it?”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 13

    Meaning

    Jonas asks this of the Giver, reflecting his growing understanding of the value of individuality and freedom. This question challenges the community's foundational principle of Sameness and highlights Jonas's evolving perspective on life, recognizing that choice, even with its risks, is fundamental to humanity.

  7. “The memories are not just about the past. They're about the future too.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 14

    Meaning

    The Giver explains to Jonas that memories provide wisdom and foresight, not just historical context. They are crucial for making informed decisions and avoiding past mistakes, emphasizing their practical importance for the community's future and the necessity of learning from history to progress.

  8. “If you want to, you can turn the sound off.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 1

    Meaning

    This line, often said by Jonas's parents about the ubiquitous community speakers, subtly reveals the limited control individuals have even over their immediate environment. It highlights the pervasive, yet often ignored, presence of authority and regulation in their seemingly perfect society.

  9. “Thank you for your childhood, Asher.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 6

    Meaning

    The Chief Elder's formal address to Asher during the Ceremony of Twelve marks the end of childhood and the beginning of adult responsibilities. It underscores the community's structured progression through life stages and the public acknowledgment of each individual's journey into their assigned role.

  10. “We relinquished sunshine and color and choice.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 12

    Meaning

    The Giver explains the profound sacrifices made by the community to achieve Sameness and control. They deliberately gave up sensory experiences like sunshine and color, and the fundamental human right of choice, in exchange for predictability and safety, revealing the high cost of their ordered world.

  11. “And back and back and back.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 11

    Meaning

    The Giver uses this phrase to convey the immense historical scope of the memories he holds. It emphasizes the vastness of human experience and knowledge that has been deliberately suppressed by the community, highlighting the weight of his burden and the depth of the past.

  12. “It's not my job to love them.”

    THE GIVER, LOIS LOWRY · 16

    Meaning

    The Giver states his detached role from the community's emotional life, emphasizing the isolation of his position. He understands that his purpose is to hold memories, not to engage in the superficial affection that passes for love in their society, underscoring his unique and solitary burden.

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